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Thursday, 10 September 2009

ADOPT Here, There, Anywhere!

I LOVE the Jolie-Pitt family! I LOVE that they have had kids of their own and I love that they adopted children. They opened their HEARTS, HOMES, and FAMILY to others in NEED. They didn't care if they were from Ethiopia, Cambodia, or Vietnam. They didn't care if they were pale, caramel or brown hued. They just wanted to give Maddox, Zahara and Pax things they didn't have before they came.

I am only 21 years old, so adoption is not an option for me at this point in time. However, I would like to adopt when I'm older and if I am financially able. I will have my own children as well, if I am able to have children of course. I would be just like the Jolie-Pitts. I wouldn't care if the child(ren) were from USA, Korea, China, or wherever. I would just want to give the child everything they need and deserve.

That's why I REALLY dislike people who whine and complain about adoptions. Some people or rather some American people whine because other Americans adopt children from other countries. "White" & "Black" Americans whine because "White" celebrities adopt African children or Biracial (Wht/Blk) American children. Plus let me not forget people who don't think people of the LGBT community should be allowed to adopt at all.

I'm not a violent person, but the people I've mention above really make me upset. Children ALL around the world NEED LOVE, FOOD, HOME and the RIGHT to be HAPPY. So someone adopts a child from another country, SO WHAT! Maybe it was easier for them to do than adopt a child from here. (America) So someone adopts a child that doesn't look like them or share similar backgrounds, SO WHAT! And so someone, who happens to love someone with the same reproductive organs as them wants to adopt, SO WHAT!

If the child is going to be getting everything they deserve and need, everything else is FOR THE MOST PART irrelevant. Sure the way some people are with race issues or homosexual issues will be a problem for them, but everyone on the planet has to deal with those.

***Leave whatever comments you want. I may not agree with you, but it is your opinions. Also this whole blog was posted because of comments I just read on AOL about Katherine Heigl and her hubby adopting a Korean child.***

Monday, 13 April 2009

F*A*T

FAT:
1. having too much flabby tissue; corpulent; obese: a fat person.
2. plump; well-fed: a good, fat chicken.
3. consisting of or containing fat; greasy; oily: fat gravy; fat meat.

The word FAT is a horrible word. Besides the above definitions people use the word to degrade other people. The word is thrown around all the time and it hurts people. I don't think people think before they go and call someone or tell that person they're fat. The word comes from skinny, average and other people that are labeled "fat."
I have this aunt; who is really messed up and does so many stupid things that she shouldn't be talking about anyone. This aunt has been on the chubbier side before in her life, but she thinks it's okay to go and call people fat. Mostly me. I'm not the only overweight person in the family.
She first called me fat or mentioned how I'm overweight around Thanksgiving. We were at my grandmother's house, she was sitting in a chair and I walked into the room. She looks at me and says "your big." It isn't fat, but it means the same thing in that context. That hurt my feelings a lot. Then she recently called me fat when the family was all together for Easter. She had stood by me, poked my stomach and says "fat ass."
The first time she did that her brother (my uncle) told her that wasn't nice, you know he stood up for me. The second time my cousin was near me, but she didn't say anything and neither did I. I'm not that kind of person I don't go and talk about people, especially family. Even though with her I could say a whole lot of shit.
My aunt, uncle and cousin that I live with tells me I need to say something back. Like I said though that isn't me. I know I need to defend myself or bring it up to her, but I just don't know how. In the past year, I've "dropped" my two best friends. For them I sent them two page long messages saying all I had to say, I'm not sure that I should do that for my aunt.
What do you think I should do? Should I just come out and say something back to her when she mentions my weight again? I should I just tell her she's being ignorant and walk off?
Help would be greatly appreciated!
Why I Cry

Why I Cry
March 2008

Why do I cry?
I cry because I hurt.

I hurt because of the way people don’t appreciate me.
The way I’m forgotten about until something bad happens and they figure I will listen.

I hurt because taking care of me is the last thing I’m thinking about at times.
Just let me help this person with their assignment,even though my wrist is sore.

I hurt because I’m tired.
To close my eyes and sleep is no option,for my mind won’t rest until it’s done REALLY thinking.

Why do I cry?
I cry because I’m tired.

I’m tired of being too nice.
I see that niceness don’t get you that far.

I;m tired of having no confidence.
I hold myself back from greater things.

I’m tired of having low self-esteem.
Many have mentioned that I’m cute, but I NEED TO SEE IT.

Why do I cry?
I cry because I feel unbeautiful.

I feel unbeautiful because I have freckles.
The brown spots all over my body that were the reason for me being teased in my younger years.

I feel unbeautiful because my breast aren’t larger.
I know they won’t grow until I conceive a zygote.

I feel unbeautiful because im overweight.
Stretch marks plastered on my stomach,yet I have no kid.

Why do I cry?
I cry because I’m overweight.

I’m overweight because I don’t know when to stop.
It tastes so good, why not get more!

I’m overweight because I’m bored.
I can’t sleep,there’s nothing on the television, but there is food in the refridgerator.

I’m overweight because I use food to fill my sadness.
The emptiness I feel will be gone once I put food in there.

Why do I cry?
I cry because I’m sad.

I’m sad because people close to me that are hurting don’t want my help.
I have to sit back and watch them get destroyed.

I’m sad because I can’t be close to the one I Love.
I wish I coud jump hundreds of miles.

I’m sad because my heart is turning into mush.
It never fails to get crushed.

Why do I cry?
I cry because my heart is turning into mush.

My heart is turning into mush because I fall too fast for people.
A connection pops up and my heart is taken.

My heart is turning into mush because the man I love has no trust.
It doesn’t hurt to hang with girl friends,but never a guy friend.

My heart is turning into mush because I wear my heart on my sleeve for the world to see.
I’m an emotional person and it shows from my voice to my eyes.

I cry because that’s how I release all my frustrations. No one gets hurt, that is why I cry!

Wednesday, 04 March 2009

You Can't Have Your Own Baby...

I GUESS IT'S A SIN.

A few minutes ago I was checking out the post made to the chick that already has three kids at 20 years and is pregnant with 4th. I forgot the title, but it is posted on Momaroo. After I finished with that blog, I searched through other blogs to find an interesting one.
I stumbled upon this: http://www.momaroo.com/momaroo/694289419/qotd---ideal-number-of-kids/ blog. (I don't know how to put the link behind a word and then you click on it)
There is a commenter (#5 I think) that says something about "you sell your soul to the devil..." if you use medical technology to have a baby of your own. She says it's alright if you go and adopt some child from wherever, but not your own.
What the hell? That was like wow. If my husband & myself in the future have trouble having a child the natural way and really want a child of our own, once we go to use technology to help us we're bad.
Your own flesh, blood, your continuance on this earth is sinful and bad. Yet if you go adopt some one else's child and raise them you are good and right. I definately have NO problem with adoption, in fact there should be more of it going on. I just think that crap if stupid.
I know this isn't the mommy site, but share with me what you think about it.

Tuesday, 17 February 2009

Love Him Like My Own

Love Him Like My Own
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I really don't know how to start this blog, but here I go. I'm in a relationship with a man that has a child. He has two children actually, but the older one is with his mother in another country. This blog is about the child that lives with him and he is responsible for.
He and I have been dating for a year now, YAY! I have no child and we haven't had a child together yet. It's just his son. He isn't mine, but I love him as if he was my child. I love children and I love his father, so it works out in the end. Plus he doesn't see his mom, so his birth mother isn't there.
Anyways my thing is whenever my boyfriend is talking about trouble he is having doing this or getting that for his son, I try to help him out and give him advice. He goes off on me and is like "Don't tell me what to do with MY son" or "you're not a parent you don't know." I get that I'm not a mother and I get that he technically isn't my child, but I love him as if I did birth him and I want what's best for him. I want to help my boyfriend to take care and help raise his son with him.
Just it hurts me when he says that stuff. It's not like I tell him "You NEED to do this" or "you HAVE to do that", telling him how to do things. I mean I KNOW that his son isn't also my son and I know that I'm not a parent, so in ways I don't know how it is. I do know that I love them both and I want to give my opinion/advice on what he should do with his son.
*How do I talk to him about it? How do I give him advice without him thinking I'm telling him what to do with his child?